Peter Pan and HookLost Boys and Neverlands:
Creating Magickal Connections in a Mundane World
March 23-25, 2018

First Landing State Park
2500 Shore Drive
Virginia Beach, VA
Cabin # 11


Brotherhood by the Bog

Brotherhood by the Bog is an annual men's spiritual and bonding experience that takes place in the spring at First Landing State Park in Virginia Beach. The focus is primarily Pagan though all respectful seekers are welcome. We welcome men of all sexual orientations and backgrounds.

This year's theme includes:

Finding and connecting with your tribe.
Rediscovering the magick within.
Achieving the balance between your inner adult and your inner child.

Keynote Presenter(s):

Eric Eldritch

Eric EldritchEldritch is a Radical Faerie, Urban Shaman, and Stone Circle Wicca Priest, who lives at the intersection of Sexuality and Spirituality. Eldritch is a community organizer with leadership experience in organizational development based on principles of group identity, sociolinguistics, and cross-cultural relations. Drawing on twenty years of experience in ceremonial and ecstatic forms of worship for ritual construction, he specializes in interfaith worship and spiritual retreat planning. Eldritch consults with Pagan and community groups to create events that organize, energize, and inspire.

 Retreat Schedule


Friday, March 23, 2018


2:30pm - 5:00pm    Staff arrive and set-up cabin and sacred space

5:00pm - 9:00pm    Guest arrival:  Check-in, Creature Comforts; Ground Rules (activities will overlap and blend)


5pm - 7pm    Activity:  Co-Creating the Space 

- setting up  Elemental Altars (We are providing  supplies)

        - setting up Community Altar (Place your personal items on the fireplace mantle)


6pm - 7pm    Dinner -- Pizza Buffet  + Salad


-  What I want to be when I grow up?

-  Whose Treasure Map are you following?


 7pm - 9pm --  “Treasure Map to Never Never Land”


- Milestones + Mentors: Meeting our Tribe

- My Lost Boy Self; My Pirate Self; My Magical Self


Saturday, March 24, 2018


8:30-9: 30am -- Arrival / Check-in / Breakfast


 9am - 10am     Breakfast


 10am - 12n    Scavenger Hunt

- Nature Photos (5 things)

- Magical Objects:  Gifts from the Mystic, the Lost Boy,  the Pirate

- Affix items to our Ancestor Offering


12n- 2pm     Lunch and Free Time


2pm - 4pm     Personal Magic (Self Portraits + Mask Making) Finding Multiple Archetypes

        Ritual - Magical Men’s Archetype


5pm - 6pm     Social Hour -- Cocktails, Mocktails and Finger Food


6pm - 7pm    Dinner


8pm - 9pm    Main Ritual

        Ancestors Procession

        Neverland: Journey to the Gnomeland Security + Unknown Universe


Sunday, March 25, 2018


8pm-9am     Breakfast


9am-10am    Packing up and cleaning up (cabin must be vacated by 10am)


 10:15am        Meet at the First Landing Main Picnic area for closing ceremonies and a brief hike


11:30am     Lunch (optional) Shorebreak Pizza and Taphouse, 2941 Shore Drive, Virginia Beach, VA 23451.


2:00pm         Tour (optional) to visit the Neptune Statue.